Dear Sisters,
As the holiday season has quickly settled upon us, I find myself reflecting on the reason and wonder for the season. It is the time when we remember the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, and reflect upon all he has done for us. I love to go and look at all the different nativity displays. It reminds me of the true meaning of Christmas. It is not the presents, food, decorations or toys that make Christmas so special.
The First Presidency said that when we remember the birth of our Savior, the Christmas Season becomes truly special. As we strive to remember our Savior, our desire to live like Him will grow. It is no coincidence that Christmas is the time of year when people are most the most loving, most giving, the most kind, and the most grateful.
As we try to follow Christ's example this season and do our best to live as He did, let us find ways to lift up those around us. Let us celebrate our Savior's birth by being followers of Christ in word and deed.
I hope we can all have a wonderful holiday season and remember the true meaning of the season.
With love,
Lacee Lemmon
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Sunday, November 1, 2009
November's Message
Dear Sisters,
In our last Relief Society General Broadcast, we were blessed to hear some wonderful talks. I was especially touched by Sister Beck’s talk, “Relief Society, A Sacred Work.” I have always had a strong testimony of the Visiting Teaching program but I realized that I have not been living up to my potential as a Visiting Teacher, and for this I apologize.
Sister Beck said, “Much of the essential Relief Society work we do doesn’t happen in meetings…. Because we follow the example and teachings of Jesus Christ we value this sacred assignment to love, know, serve, understand, teach, and minister in His behalf. This is one duty we have in the Church where we are certain to have the help of the Lord if we ask for it. This is one responsibility that is certain to increase our faith and personal righteousness and strengthen our own homes and families, as we become partners with the Lord. A sister in this Church has no other responsibility outside of her family that has the potential to do as much good as does visiting teaching. …. Ideally, every sister should watch over and strengthen at least one other sister in her ward. It is our blessing to pray for another sister and receive inspiration as to how the Lord would have us care for one of His daughters”. Wow! I have been a visiting teacher for more than half of my life and I have heard this many times; but this time it really hit home. I have always tried to fulfill my “responsibility” but now I realize it is not a responsibility alone, it is a blessing.
I have been blessed by great visiting teachers in my life. These women have been there for me physically, spiritually and emotionally. It is not always easy to let someone into our lives, especially when things are difficult, but it is my challenge that we as sisters do as we have been charged and “pray for inspiration as to how the Lord would have us care for one of His daughters”. Sometimes we may feel that we are “just a visiting teacher”. President James E Faust has said, “The Lord has a great work for each of us to do. You may wonder how this can be. You may feel that there is nothing special or superior about your ability… The Lord can do remarkable miracles with a person of ordinary ability who is humble, faithful, and diligent in serving the Lord and seeks to improve himself. This is because God is the ultimate source of power”. If we are humble and seek for the inspiration of the Lord, we will be able to change lives as we serve in our calling as a visiting teacher.
It is my prayer this holiday season that we take the time to rededicate ourselves to the sisters we visit teach. As we do, we partner with the Lord and we will “increase our faith and personal righteousness and strengthen our own homes and families.
I love serving in Relief Society. The sisters in this ward have blessed my life greatly and I love each of you. Thank you for all you do for one another.
Love,
Sister Shari Aschieris
In our last Relief Society General Broadcast, we were blessed to hear some wonderful talks. I was especially touched by Sister Beck’s talk, “Relief Society, A Sacred Work.” I have always had a strong testimony of the Visiting Teaching program but I realized that I have not been living up to my potential as a Visiting Teacher, and for this I apologize.
Sister Beck said, “Much of the essential Relief Society work we do doesn’t happen in meetings…. Because we follow the example and teachings of Jesus Christ we value this sacred assignment to love, know, serve, understand, teach, and minister in His behalf. This is one duty we have in the Church where we are certain to have the help of the Lord if we ask for it. This is one responsibility that is certain to increase our faith and personal righteousness and strengthen our own homes and families, as we become partners with the Lord. A sister in this Church has no other responsibility outside of her family that has the potential to do as much good as does visiting teaching. …. Ideally, every sister should watch over and strengthen at least one other sister in her ward. It is our blessing to pray for another sister and receive inspiration as to how the Lord would have us care for one of His daughters”. Wow! I have been a visiting teacher for more than half of my life and I have heard this many times; but this time it really hit home. I have always tried to fulfill my “responsibility” but now I realize it is not a responsibility alone, it is a blessing.
I have been blessed by great visiting teachers in my life. These women have been there for me physically, spiritually and emotionally. It is not always easy to let someone into our lives, especially when things are difficult, but it is my challenge that we as sisters do as we have been charged and “pray for inspiration as to how the Lord would have us care for one of His daughters”. Sometimes we may feel that we are “just a visiting teacher”. President James E Faust has said, “The Lord has a great work for each of us to do. You may wonder how this can be. You may feel that there is nothing special or superior about your ability… The Lord can do remarkable miracles with a person of ordinary ability who is humble, faithful, and diligent in serving the Lord and seeks to improve himself. This is because God is the ultimate source of power”. If we are humble and seek for the inspiration of the Lord, we will be able to change lives as we serve in our calling as a visiting teacher.
It is my prayer this holiday season that we take the time to rededicate ourselves to the sisters we visit teach. As we do, we partner with the Lord and we will “increase our faith and personal righteousness and strengthen our own homes and families.
I love serving in Relief Society. The sisters in this ward have blessed my life greatly and I love each of you. Thank you for all you do for one another.
Love,
Sister Shari Aschieris
Monday, October 12, 2009
October Message
Last week I took Kaleb and Kolby to feed the ducks at Klineline. The weather was beautiful - crisp air, blue skies and sunshine. The trees were amazing with the leaves changing colors. The boys had a great time feeding left over pancakes to the ducks. As I watched the ducks swim after the food being thrown to them I couldn't help but notice how any water splashed up on the ducks backs simply rolled right off. It did not penetrate the feathers at all but would just roll off. It reminded me of a phrase my dad has often used, "like water off a ducks back".
The same afternoon we'd fed the ducks I came across an article in the Church News called, 'Let it go'. The article talks about how many of us today allow ourselves to be offended over trivial things. We could and should, like the ducks, let whatever it is thats offended us roll off our backs and let it go. Elder Bednar said: "In some way and at some time, someone in this Church will do or say something that could be considered offensive. Such an event will surely happen to each and every one of us - and it certainly will occur more than once. Though people may not intend to injure or offend us, they nonetheless can be inconsiderate and tactless. You and I cannot control the intentions or behavior of other people. However, we do determine how we will act. Please remember that you and I are endowed with moral agency, and we can choose not to be offended. When we believe or say we have been offended, we usually mean we feel insulted, mistreated, snubbed or disrespected. And certainly clumsy, embarrassing, unprincipled and mean-spirited things do occur in our intentions with other people that would allow us to take offense. However, it ultimately is impossible for another person to offend you or to offend me. Indeed, believing that another person offended us is fundamentally false. To be offended is a choice we make. It is not a condition inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else." ("And Nothing Shall Offend Them, Liahona, Nov. 2006, 89-92)
The scriptures teach us to triumph over offense. Psalm 119:165 reads, "Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them." Mosiah 4:13 reads, "And ye will not have a mind to injure one another, but to live peaceably, and to render to every man according to that which is his due." When we find ourselves in situations where offense could be taken or has been taken- let's remember the ducks at the pond and like water off their backs, "let it go".
"All of us carry baggage around from time to time, but the wisest one among us don't carry it for very long", said President Boyd K. Packer, president of the Quorum of the Twelve. "Some things that ought to be put in order are not put in order because you can't control them. Often, however, the things we carry are petty, even stupid. If you are still upset after all these years because Aunt Clara didn't come to your wedding reception, why don't you grow up? Forget it. If you brood constantly over some past mistake, settle it - look ahead. If the bishop didn't call you right - or release you right - forget it. If you resent someone for something he has done - or failed to do - forget it. We call that forgiveness. It is powerful, spiritual medicine." ("The Balm of Gilead", New Era, Aug. 1979, 36)
Life is too precious to get caught up in harboring offenses and we have too much good to do. Let's put our energies to use building each other and the Lord's kingdom and let the trivial, offensive things 'roll off our backs'. We can do it, we must do it. Enjoy this wonderful time of year - I love the changing of the seasons. You are amazing women! I love and admire you.
Jennifer Hadfield
The same afternoon we'd fed the ducks I came across an article in the Church News called, 'Let it go'. The article talks about how many of us today allow ourselves to be offended over trivial things. We could and should, like the ducks, let whatever it is thats offended us roll off our backs and let it go. Elder Bednar said: "In some way and at some time, someone in this Church will do or say something that could be considered offensive. Such an event will surely happen to each and every one of us - and it certainly will occur more than once. Though people may not intend to injure or offend us, they nonetheless can be inconsiderate and tactless. You and I cannot control the intentions or behavior of other people. However, we do determine how we will act. Please remember that you and I are endowed with moral agency, and we can choose not to be offended. When we believe or say we have been offended, we usually mean we feel insulted, mistreated, snubbed or disrespected. And certainly clumsy, embarrassing, unprincipled and mean-spirited things do occur in our intentions with other people that would allow us to take offense. However, it ultimately is impossible for another person to offend you or to offend me. Indeed, believing that another person offended us is fundamentally false. To be offended is a choice we make. It is not a condition inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else." ("And Nothing Shall Offend Them, Liahona, Nov. 2006, 89-92)
The scriptures teach us to triumph over offense. Psalm 119:165 reads, "Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them." Mosiah 4:13 reads, "And ye will not have a mind to injure one another, but to live peaceably, and to render to every man according to that which is his due." When we find ourselves in situations where offense could be taken or has been taken- let's remember the ducks at the pond and like water off their backs, "let it go".
"All of us carry baggage around from time to time, but the wisest one among us don't carry it for very long", said President Boyd K. Packer, president of the Quorum of the Twelve. "Some things that ought to be put in order are not put in order because you can't control them. Often, however, the things we carry are petty, even stupid. If you are still upset after all these years because Aunt Clara didn't come to your wedding reception, why don't you grow up? Forget it. If you brood constantly over some past mistake, settle it - look ahead. If the bishop didn't call you right - or release you right - forget it. If you resent someone for something he has done - or failed to do - forget it. We call that forgiveness. It is powerful, spiritual medicine." ("The Balm of Gilead", New Era, Aug. 1979, 36)
Life is too precious to get caught up in harboring offenses and we have too much good to do. Let's put our energies to use building each other and the Lord's kingdom and let the trivial, offensive things 'roll off our backs'. We can do it, we must do it. Enjoy this wonderful time of year - I love the changing of the seasons. You are amazing women! I love and admire you.
Jennifer Hadfield
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
The Powerful Influence of Women
The following is the talk given by Sister Deborah Draper, at the February 7, 2009 Vancouver, WA West Stake Releif Society Conference...
My dear sisters of the Vancouver WA West Stake, I love you. What an exciting time it is to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and a member of Relief Society. I am so humbled to be among you wonderful women and feel of your love and support. These past few weeks I have listened to this beautiful women’s choir practice and felt the spirit of this music. I know you feel it today as well. Thank you to these sisters who sacrificed time and talent to prepare the music for this meeting. Thanks also to the wonderful women who planned the meal we will have and decorated the cultural hall. I’m thankful to serve with these sisters on the stand. They love you as well and you will feel their love.
We meet today, much more alike than we are different. One thing I love about the temple is there we all dress alike. We are all daughters of Heavenly parents, we have all made covenants with Him, we have families that we love and cherish, we are striving to live and teach the gospel. We are sisters in this great Relief Society. Sometimes we focus too much on our differences. We are different and unique. Those differences help us lift and sustain each other. I get energy
watching the new young single adult join RS. I thrill watching a young mother cradle her children. I can share experiences with parents of teenagers. I learn so much from those who are
further down the path of life than I am. Alike - each of us lives in a home - a sacred place. In the Bible dictionary under temples it says, “Only the home can compare with the temple in
sacredness.”
More than 35 years ago, Satan launched an all-out attack on the family. He targeted women. That war rages on today, on an even greater scale, attacking all that is sacred in a family. It is
the world Paul described to Timothy: “This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.” (2 Timothy 3:1-5) That list describes our day. There are other problems that bombard families. Economic and financial distress, serious health concerns and other things that cause us to lose hope. WE CAN NOT!! With all of this chaos abounding in the world we must make our homes safe havens from its affects. In Helaman 5:12 we read, “And now my sons
remember, remember, that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty storm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and The Powerful Influence of Women “Only the home can compare with the temple in sacredness.” Bible Dictionary endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fail.”
One day one of my younger sons came home from school and even before I had a chance to ask him about his day he asked if it was a good day or bad day. I questioned him about his query and
he said, “Well, some days are bad days and we get in trouble for everything and other days are good days.” I immediately thought it’s these crazy hormones and then I had to do some self
introspection. There had been those days full of negativity and criticism. I didn’t like myself much at this time. I had created an environment where he did not feel safe to say anything until he found out what kind of “weather” he might meet. I was in charge of the “weather” in my home. Weather is a fascinating thing. It affects everything in my yard in very real ways. Even
hardy blackberry bush canes have been bent to the ground from the weather. What kind of weather exists in our homes? Of course under ideal conditions everyday in our homes would be warm and sunny, with just the right amount of moisture to provide an atmosphere for the best growth of every one in our homes including us. We have the most control over the environment and atmosphere that exists there. Each of our homes is the place where we come to seek shelter from the storm that is all around us. What are we doing in our homes to insure that there is safety there?
Number 1 – let’s be peacemakers. What warmth this would bring to our homes. Following the example of the Prince of Peace we can be as he admonished and be a peacemaker. Christ said, “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God.” (Matthew 5:9) Blessed means happy, favored, and glorified. The gospel is the plan of life that will restore peace to the world, remove inner tensions and troubles and bring happiness to the human soul. We
can pray in our families for the spirit of peace.
A very wise bishop called several young people into his office and said to them: “I would like you to help me in an experiment. I would like to prove the impact of the influence of one member on the spirit of the family. For one month, I would like each of you to be the peacemaker in your home. Don’t say anything about this to your family, but be thoughtful, kind and considerate. Be an example. Where there is quarreling or bickering among members of your family, do whatever you can to overcome theses faults by creating an atmosphere of love, harmony and helpfulness. When you are irritated – and you will be – control yourself and help the others to control themselves. I would like to see every home in our ward be a bit of heaven on earth.’ I want to meet with you for a report in one month. There was the challenge. One young man said, “I had no idea I would have so much influence in my home. It’s really been different this last month. I’ve been wondering if much of the turmoil and strife we used to have was caused by me and my attitudes.” A young lady said: ‘I guess we were just the normal family with our selfishness causing little daily conflicts. But as I have worked with my brothers and sisters, a lot of this has been eliminated, and there has been a much sweeter spirit in our home. I believe you really have to work at it to have the spirit of peace in your home. Another young lady said, “Yes, there has been a much sweeter and cooperative and unselfish spirit in our home since I began this experiment, but the biggest difference of all has been in me. I’ve tried hard to be a good example and a peacemaker and I feel better about myself than I have ever felt. A wonderful feeling of peace has come over me.”
Would you be willing to try that bishop’s experiment for just one month. No one else in your family will know but you! This year’s mutual theme is taken from 2 Timothy 4:12, “Be thou an
example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” It can and must start with us. I promise as you try and become a peacemaker in your home that the
rewards will be most gratifying. Warmth and sunshine will come from being a peacemaker.
Number 2 – Express love and reverence or respect. These words of love and respect bring life
giving moisture to a happy home. If everyday our homes “rained” words that built, complimented, praised and encouraged all who live in our homes, what rich growth would take place there. Let’s mostly focus on the good in others. In Ephesians 5, the apostle Paul teaches a great sermon on husbands and wives. In those verses he tells husbands to love their wives and then tells wives to REVERENCE or respect their husbands. Not love, but reverence which in the footnote is respect. Our spouses need respect more than they need love. We are the ones who need love. These are deep feelings that each one in our homes need to feel. People are tender plants. We need much nurturing and tender care. Children need to know and see that mom and dad love each other. They see divorce all around them. Children need to be told every single day how much they are loved. Actions always speak louder than words, so our actions should convey
love. When children begin to fight or quarrel we can let them know that it was really
Heavenly Father who needs us not to allow them to do that. In Mosiah 4:14 we learn that
we have sacred responsibilities as parents to care for our children. “Neither will ye suffer that they transgress the laws of God, and fight and quarrel one with another, and serve the devil, who is the master of sin, or who is the evil spirit which hath been spoken of…he being an enemy to all righteousness.” Those words apply not only to children!! Our homes will be blessed by the positive things we say to each other, in the way we show respect and reverence for each other, our homes and our covenants. Let it rain words of love in your homes every single day.
Number 3 – Avoid criticism and its horrible sister sarcasm. These can be as damaging as heavy wind and hailstones. This kind of weather if allowed in our homes will tear down the esteem of those we love the most. Much of humor in our world is based on sarcasm these days. We think it does no harm, but words can leave a stinging bite. Did you ever stop to think that every time you criticize, you are judging? Again in the Sermon on the Mount the Savior said, “Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged.” (Matthew 7:1-2) Seldom is criticism constructive!! If ever!! It usually belittles and tears down. We even do it to ourselves sometimes. We would not talk to our friends the way we sometimes talk to ourselves.
Criticism stands in the way of being able to forgive. It magnifies faults in ourselves and others and blinds us to the wonderful qualities that are there as well. Our homes must be weatherproofed from these. Neither criticism nor sarcasm has a place in our homes.
Number 4 – Choose to be happy and find joy. Sunshine exists in homes that are happy. We need lots of sunshine. I have on my wall at home a quote from the Prophet Joseph Smith that says, “Happiness is the object and design of our existence; and will be the end thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it, and this path is virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness and keeping all the
commandments of God.” It was relevant then, and it is relevant now! With such a clear map to happiness why then are there so many unhappy people? At the general women’s broadcast in
September, President Uchtdorf spoke of Happiness being our Heritage. He spoke to all of us that evening when he said he wanted to speak to all who had ever felt inadequate, discouraged or weary. He counseled us to try to find God’s happiness by doing two things that Heavenly Father does to be happy. They were to be creative and compassionate. I testify to you that I have put these to the test. I was one who said I was not creative, but I have found ways to be creative, even doing laundry! I also testify that true happiness comes as we show compassion and love to others.
Service is the vehicle that delivers compassion. Find ways to lose yourself in service to others and like the Lord promises you will find yourself in losing yourself – especially to those in our own homes.
Number 5– Live the gospel - all aspects of the gospel. There is safety and peace in living the
gospel and in so doing we can make sure that the “floods of filth” that run in the streets of our world will not enter our homes. Beware of leaks in our homes where the world could enter. We have the most control of the environment there, so we have to lock out filth in any of its forms – music, TV, DVDs, games, the computer, magazines and even newspapers. Use the commandments as the measuring stick to know what choices to make in your homes for adults as well as children and youth. In the proclamation to the world it says: “Successful marriages
and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work and wholesome recreational activities.” In all things in our homes we should base our choices on what Christ would have us do because he is the foundation of our homes. We cannot think that we can skirt the counsel that living prophets
have given us for years to strengthen our families. That counsel comes with promises. We must attend the temple often. We must have personal prayer, scripture study and time to ponder. We
must have family prayer, family scripture study and family home evening. Not doing so would be like sending our families out into the storms of life with no protective clothing on at all. It isn’t always easy, but we must persevere. Elder Boyd K. Packer said that even with doing these we might lose some of our family members to the wickedness of the world, but with a foundation of these things done at home they will return!!! What comfort that blessing should give us all.
The weather in our homes will improve as we commit to being a little better at being a peacemaker, expressing love and respect, avoiding criticism, choosing to be happy and living the gospel, the foundations of our homes will be strengthened. When the SLC temple was being built there were problems with the foundation. President Young told them that they would have to
start over with the foundation because they were building a temple that would stand through the millennium. We are building homes that house families that we want to last for eternity. Sister Margaret Nadauld said, “Like the temple’s firm foundation, once the family foundation is firmed up and the strength of the family is established, it can be there for eternity. It can endure forever.” We can do it. The Lord will bless us as we build our foundation on Him and trust in his promises. In Isaiah 42 we read, “Fear thou not; for I am with thee; be not dismayed; for I am thy God; I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. We must build our homes and lives on the cornerstone of Christ. He sent
us here at this time because He knew we could help prepare the earth for His coming. He is where wewill find peace and joy in these times of turmoil.
I testify of that in His Holy name, even Jesus Christ. Amen.
My dear sisters of the Vancouver WA West Stake, I love you. What an exciting time it is to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and a member of Relief Society. I am so humbled to be among you wonderful women and feel of your love and support. These past few weeks I have listened to this beautiful women’s choir practice and felt the spirit of this music. I know you feel it today as well. Thank you to these sisters who sacrificed time and talent to prepare the music for this meeting. Thanks also to the wonderful women who planned the meal we will have and decorated the cultural hall. I’m thankful to serve with these sisters on the stand. They love you as well and you will feel their love.
We meet today, much more alike than we are different. One thing I love about the temple is there we all dress alike. We are all daughters of Heavenly parents, we have all made covenants with Him, we have families that we love and cherish, we are striving to live and teach the gospel. We are sisters in this great Relief Society. Sometimes we focus too much on our differences. We are different and unique. Those differences help us lift and sustain each other. I get energy
watching the new young single adult join RS. I thrill watching a young mother cradle her children. I can share experiences with parents of teenagers. I learn so much from those who are
further down the path of life than I am. Alike - each of us lives in a home - a sacred place. In the Bible dictionary under temples it says, “Only the home can compare with the temple in
sacredness.”
More than 35 years ago, Satan launched an all-out attack on the family. He targeted women. That war rages on today, on an even greater scale, attacking all that is sacred in a family. It is
the world Paul described to Timothy: “This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.” (2 Timothy 3:1-5) That list describes our day. There are other problems that bombard families. Economic and financial distress, serious health concerns and other things that cause us to lose hope. WE CAN NOT!! With all of this chaos abounding in the world we must make our homes safe havens from its affects. In Helaman 5:12 we read, “And now my sons
remember, remember, that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty storm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and The Powerful Influence of Women “Only the home can compare with the temple in sacredness.” Bible Dictionary endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fail.”
One day one of my younger sons came home from school and even before I had a chance to ask him about his day he asked if it was a good day or bad day. I questioned him about his query and
he said, “Well, some days are bad days and we get in trouble for everything and other days are good days.” I immediately thought it’s these crazy hormones and then I had to do some self
introspection. There had been those days full of negativity and criticism. I didn’t like myself much at this time. I had created an environment where he did not feel safe to say anything until he found out what kind of “weather” he might meet. I was in charge of the “weather” in my home. Weather is a fascinating thing. It affects everything in my yard in very real ways. Even
hardy blackberry bush canes have been bent to the ground from the weather. What kind of weather exists in our homes? Of course under ideal conditions everyday in our homes would be warm and sunny, with just the right amount of moisture to provide an atmosphere for the best growth of every one in our homes including us. We have the most control over the environment and atmosphere that exists there. Each of our homes is the place where we come to seek shelter from the storm that is all around us. What are we doing in our homes to insure that there is safety there?
Number 1 – let’s be peacemakers. What warmth this would bring to our homes. Following the example of the Prince of Peace we can be as he admonished and be a peacemaker. Christ said, “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God.” (Matthew 5:9) Blessed means happy, favored, and glorified. The gospel is the plan of life that will restore peace to the world, remove inner tensions and troubles and bring happiness to the human soul. We
can pray in our families for the spirit of peace.
A very wise bishop called several young people into his office and said to them: “I would like you to help me in an experiment. I would like to prove the impact of the influence of one member on the spirit of the family. For one month, I would like each of you to be the peacemaker in your home. Don’t say anything about this to your family, but be thoughtful, kind and considerate. Be an example. Where there is quarreling or bickering among members of your family, do whatever you can to overcome theses faults by creating an atmosphere of love, harmony and helpfulness. When you are irritated – and you will be – control yourself and help the others to control themselves. I would like to see every home in our ward be a bit of heaven on earth.’ I want to meet with you for a report in one month. There was the challenge. One young man said, “I had no idea I would have so much influence in my home. It’s really been different this last month. I’ve been wondering if much of the turmoil and strife we used to have was caused by me and my attitudes.” A young lady said: ‘I guess we were just the normal family with our selfishness causing little daily conflicts. But as I have worked with my brothers and sisters, a lot of this has been eliminated, and there has been a much sweeter spirit in our home. I believe you really have to work at it to have the spirit of peace in your home. Another young lady said, “Yes, there has been a much sweeter and cooperative and unselfish spirit in our home since I began this experiment, but the biggest difference of all has been in me. I’ve tried hard to be a good example and a peacemaker and I feel better about myself than I have ever felt. A wonderful feeling of peace has come over me.”
Would you be willing to try that bishop’s experiment for just one month. No one else in your family will know but you! This year’s mutual theme is taken from 2 Timothy 4:12, “Be thou an
example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” It can and must start with us. I promise as you try and become a peacemaker in your home that the
rewards will be most gratifying. Warmth and sunshine will come from being a peacemaker.
Number 2 – Express love and reverence or respect. These words of love and respect bring life
giving moisture to a happy home. If everyday our homes “rained” words that built, complimented, praised and encouraged all who live in our homes, what rich growth would take place there. Let’s mostly focus on the good in others. In Ephesians 5, the apostle Paul teaches a great sermon on husbands and wives. In those verses he tells husbands to love their wives and then tells wives to REVERENCE or respect their husbands. Not love, but reverence which in the footnote is respect. Our spouses need respect more than they need love. We are the ones who need love. These are deep feelings that each one in our homes need to feel. People are tender plants. We need much nurturing and tender care. Children need to know and see that mom and dad love each other. They see divorce all around them. Children need to be told every single day how much they are loved. Actions always speak louder than words, so our actions should convey
love. When children begin to fight or quarrel we can let them know that it was really
Heavenly Father who needs us not to allow them to do that. In Mosiah 4:14 we learn that
we have sacred responsibilities as parents to care for our children. “Neither will ye suffer that they transgress the laws of God, and fight and quarrel one with another, and serve the devil, who is the master of sin, or who is the evil spirit which hath been spoken of…he being an enemy to all righteousness.” Those words apply not only to children!! Our homes will be blessed by the positive things we say to each other, in the way we show respect and reverence for each other, our homes and our covenants. Let it rain words of love in your homes every single day.
Number 3 – Avoid criticism and its horrible sister sarcasm. These can be as damaging as heavy wind and hailstones. This kind of weather if allowed in our homes will tear down the esteem of those we love the most. Much of humor in our world is based on sarcasm these days. We think it does no harm, but words can leave a stinging bite. Did you ever stop to think that every time you criticize, you are judging? Again in the Sermon on the Mount the Savior said, “Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged.” (Matthew 7:1-2) Seldom is criticism constructive!! If ever!! It usually belittles and tears down. We even do it to ourselves sometimes. We would not talk to our friends the way we sometimes talk to ourselves.
Criticism stands in the way of being able to forgive. It magnifies faults in ourselves and others and blinds us to the wonderful qualities that are there as well. Our homes must be weatherproofed from these. Neither criticism nor sarcasm has a place in our homes.
Number 4 – Choose to be happy and find joy. Sunshine exists in homes that are happy. We need lots of sunshine. I have on my wall at home a quote from the Prophet Joseph Smith that says, “Happiness is the object and design of our existence; and will be the end thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it, and this path is virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness and keeping all the
commandments of God.” It was relevant then, and it is relevant now! With such a clear map to happiness why then are there so many unhappy people? At the general women’s broadcast in
September, President Uchtdorf spoke of Happiness being our Heritage. He spoke to all of us that evening when he said he wanted to speak to all who had ever felt inadequate, discouraged or weary. He counseled us to try to find God’s happiness by doing two things that Heavenly Father does to be happy. They were to be creative and compassionate. I testify to you that I have put these to the test. I was one who said I was not creative, but I have found ways to be creative, even doing laundry! I also testify that true happiness comes as we show compassion and love to others.
Service is the vehicle that delivers compassion. Find ways to lose yourself in service to others and like the Lord promises you will find yourself in losing yourself – especially to those in our own homes.
Number 5– Live the gospel - all aspects of the gospel. There is safety and peace in living the
gospel and in so doing we can make sure that the “floods of filth” that run in the streets of our world will not enter our homes. Beware of leaks in our homes where the world could enter. We have the most control of the environment there, so we have to lock out filth in any of its forms – music, TV, DVDs, games, the computer, magazines and even newspapers. Use the commandments as the measuring stick to know what choices to make in your homes for adults as well as children and youth. In the proclamation to the world it says: “Successful marriages
and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work and wholesome recreational activities.” In all things in our homes we should base our choices on what Christ would have us do because he is the foundation of our homes. We cannot think that we can skirt the counsel that living prophets
have given us for years to strengthen our families. That counsel comes with promises. We must attend the temple often. We must have personal prayer, scripture study and time to ponder. We
must have family prayer, family scripture study and family home evening. Not doing so would be like sending our families out into the storms of life with no protective clothing on at all. It isn’t always easy, but we must persevere. Elder Boyd K. Packer said that even with doing these we might lose some of our family members to the wickedness of the world, but with a foundation of these things done at home they will return!!! What comfort that blessing should give us all.
The weather in our homes will improve as we commit to being a little better at being a peacemaker, expressing love and respect, avoiding criticism, choosing to be happy and living the gospel, the foundations of our homes will be strengthened. When the SLC temple was being built there were problems with the foundation. President Young told them that they would have to
start over with the foundation because they were building a temple that would stand through the millennium. We are building homes that house families that we want to last for eternity. Sister Margaret Nadauld said, “Like the temple’s firm foundation, once the family foundation is firmed up and the strength of the family is established, it can be there for eternity. It can endure forever.” We can do it. The Lord will bless us as we build our foundation on Him and trust in his promises. In Isaiah 42 we read, “Fear thou not; for I am with thee; be not dismayed; for I am thy God; I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. We must build our homes and lives on the cornerstone of Christ. He sent
us here at this time because He knew we could help prepare the earth for His coming. He is where wewill find peace and joy in these times of turmoil.
I testify of that in His Holy name, even Jesus Christ. Amen.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
February Message
Dear Sisters,
As I listened to Sister Hadfield commenting at the VT conference on the “Angels Among Us.” I reflected back on the many sisters who have influenced my life and helped me in a positive, uplifting way giving me strength when I needed it most. Either through visiting teaching; by bringing food when I was ill; or just the example they have set by not judging others; by their sacrifices and trials, and their service.
We all tend to be really hard on ourselves and get down because we don’t think we measure up to others, or we think about all the bad things we’ve done or the things we aren’t getting done. We always forget about all the good we have done in our lives, the service given; the trials we’ve been through; and the sacrifices we have all made in behalf of others, either family or friends, in or out of the church.
Our Father in Heaven and the Savior has so much love for us and we are our own worst judges. We need to remember that love and try to share it with others as we can. We do not need to run faster than we have the ability too and not beat ourselves up for being mortal. We will not be perfect in this life and the important thing is to not give up on ourselves and allow others to help us and support us. It is important for us to be forgiving of each other and our weaknesses and try to support each other in any way we can. We are not in competition with each other. We are living in a time of much turmoil and we will need each other in many ways. I grow in love for each of you as I serve in Relief Society and I know how much love Jennifer, Lacee, and Cheryl feel for you all. We pray for you and always have your welfare on our minds.
Sincerely, Sister Yoshioka
As I listened to Sister Hadfield commenting at the VT conference on the “Angels Among Us.” I reflected back on the many sisters who have influenced my life and helped me in a positive, uplifting way giving me strength when I needed it most. Either through visiting teaching; by bringing food when I was ill; or just the example they have set by not judging others; by their sacrifices and trials, and their service.
We all tend to be really hard on ourselves and get down because we don’t think we measure up to others, or we think about all the bad things we’ve done or the things we aren’t getting done. We always forget about all the good we have done in our lives, the service given; the trials we’ve been through; and the sacrifices we have all made in behalf of others, either family or friends, in or out of the church.
Our Father in Heaven and the Savior has so much love for us and we are our own worst judges. We need to remember that love and try to share it with others as we can. We do not need to run faster than we have the ability too and not beat ourselves up for being mortal. We will not be perfect in this life and the important thing is to not give up on ourselves and allow others to help us and support us. It is important for us to be forgiving of each other and our weaknesses and try to support each other in any way we can. We are not in competition with each other. We are living in a time of much turmoil and we will need each other in many ways. I grow in love for each of you as I serve in Relief Society and I know how much love Jennifer, Lacee, and Cheryl feel for you all. We pray for you and always have your welfare on our minds.
Sincerely, Sister Yoshioka
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Angels Among Us - Visiting Teaching Conference
Calling All Relief Society Sisters
Join Us For
A Delicious Brunch
Saturday, January 31st
11:00 am
At the Home of Jennifer Hadfield
11309 NW 13th Court
Share the blessings of this wonderful commandment of serving your sisters. Enjoy a delicious brunch, fellowship with your sisters, and a short program. You will leave being physically and spiritually fed. RSVP to a member of the RS Presidency.
Monday, January 26, 2009
Lesson 4: Families Are a Part of Heavenly Father’s Plan
Opening Song: “Families Can Be Together Forever” (CS, page 188)
Opening Prayer
Family Business:
Scripture or Testimony: Matthew 6:21
Lesson: Review with the children that each of us chose to follow Heavenly Father’s plan and come to earth. Tell the children that when we came to earth, Heavenly Father blessed us with people to help us and love us.
Tell the children that you will give them clues to help them figure out who these people are. One at a time, have a child hold up each letter of the word family. Have the children state the name of the letter. Then give a clue that starts with that letter. Some possible clues are given on the next page.
· 1. Father is a part of it.
· 2. Aunts and uncles are part of it.
· 3. Mother is a part of it.
· 4. I am a part of it.
· 5. Love is a part of it.
· 6. You are a part of it.
When you have given all the clues, repeat the word family together with the children.
• Why do we need families?
Explain that when we were babies we needed to live with people who would take care of us. Heavenly Father planned for each of us to live with a family that would love us and take care of us. As we grow older, our families also teach us and help us make wise choices. Explain that all families are different. Some families have two parents, and some families have only one. Some families have lots of children, and some families have only a few children or one child. Some families have children, parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles all living together. Some children live with adults who aren’t related to them but who still love them and care for them. Families do different things together and show love in different ways. The important thing about families is that the family members love and care for each other. Everyone needs to be part of a family.
Activity:
Hold up your hand with the fingers extended. Explain that the members of a family can work together like the fingers and thumb of a hand. Ask the children to try to pick up their scriptures or some other object with one hand, without using their thumbs. Explain that while they may be able to pick up the object with just their fingers, it is much easier when they use their thumb and fingers together. Remind the children that every member of a family is important. Family members can accomplish much when they all work together.
Give the children paper and crayons or pencils and have them draw pictures of their families. Label each picture My Family Loves Me.
Closing Prayer
Treat
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Lesson 3: My Body Is a Temple
Opening Song: “The Lord Gave Me a Temple” (CS 153)
Opening Prayer
Family Business:
Scripture or Testimony: 1 Corinthians 3:16
Lesson: Vicki F. Matsumori, “Sharing Time: Ye Are the Temple of God,” Friend, May 2002, 44
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? … For the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are (1 Cor. 3:16–17).Close your eyes and picture a temple. What color is it? How big is it? Does it have any windows? Are there spires? How many? The temples of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are unique. The Salt Lake Temple in Utah has gray granite walls and six spires. It looks different from the Cardston, Alberta Temple in Canada, which has natural stone walls and no spires. Even though each temple looks different, all are beautiful and are built for the same purpose. They are places where special ordinances take place that are needed for us to return to Heavenly Father. Temples are also places where Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father can come.
You are like the temple. You are different from everyone else, but you, too, are a house for the Spirit of God (the Holy Ghost). The Apostle Paul said: “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? … For the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” (1 Cor. 3:16–17.) Your body is a temple. Just as you treat temples with respect, you should treat your own body with respect. You can do this by obeying the Word of Wisdom (see D&C 89), by dressing modestly, and by following the counsel of President Gordon B. Hinckley to “be clean” (see Friend, February 2001, page 25). One way to be clean is to not have tattoos. President Hinckley said, “A tattoo is graffiti on the temple of the body” (Ensign, November 2000, page 52). You should also keep your heart and mind clean by reading, listening to, and watching only “things that are pleasing to Heavenly Father” (see My Gospel Standards). If you are clean in mind and body, you can receive great blessings because “the Lord hath said he dwelleth not in unholy temples, but in the hearts of the righteous doth he dwell” (Alma 34:36).
Activity: Find your way through the maze. When you get to a picture, follow the path that represents your choice. Choose the Yes path if the picture shows something that helps you keep your body “a temple of God.” Choose the No path if it is something that would not be good for your mind or body.
Draw small pictures of five other things that are good for you, and five things you should avoid. Place your pictures over corresponding good-and bad-choice pictures in the maze.
Closing Prayer & Treat
Opening Prayer
Family Business:
Scripture or Testimony: 1 Corinthians 3:16
Lesson: Vicki F. Matsumori, “Sharing Time: Ye Are the Temple of God,” Friend, May 2002, 44
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? … For the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are (1 Cor. 3:16–17).Close your eyes and picture a temple. What color is it? How big is it? Does it have any windows? Are there spires? How many? The temples of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are unique. The Salt Lake Temple in Utah has gray granite walls and six spires. It looks different from the Cardston, Alberta Temple in Canada, which has natural stone walls and no spires. Even though each temple looks different, all are beautiful and are built for the same purpose. They are places where special ordinances take place that are needed for us to return to Heavenly Father. Temples are also places where Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father can come.
You are like the temple. You are different from everyone else, but you, too, are a house for the Spirit of God (the Holy Ghost). The Apostle Paul said: “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? … For the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.” (1 Cor. 3:16–17.) Your body is a temple. Just as you treat temples with respect, you should treat your own body with respect. You can do this by obeying the Word of Wisdom (see D&C 89), by dressing modestly, and by following the counsel of President Gordon B. Hinckley to “be clean” (see Friend, February 2001, page 25). One way to be clean is to not have tattoos. President Hinckley said, “A tattoo is graffiti on the temple of the body” (Ensign, November 2000, page 52). You should also keep your heart and mind clean by reading, listening to, and watching only “things that are pleasing to Heavenly Father” (see My Gospel Standards). If you are clean in mind and body, you can receive great blessings because “the Lord hath said he dwelleth not in unholy temples, but in the hearts of the righteous doth he dwell” (Alma 34:36).
Activity: Find your way through the maze. When you get to a picture, follow the path that represents your choice. Choose the Yes path if the picture shows something that helps you keep your body “a temple of God.” Choose the No path if it is something that would not be good for your mind or body.
Draw small pictures of five other things that are good for you, and five things you should avoid. Place your pictures over corresponding good-and bad-choice pictures in the maze.
Closing Prayer & Treat
Monday, January 12, 2009
2009 FHE Lesson
Lesson 2: My Pre-mortal Life
Opening Song: “I Lived in Heaven” (CS, page 4)
Opening Prayer
Family Business:
Scripture or Testimony: D & C 138:56
Lesson: Margaret Lifferth, “Sharing Time: The Plan of Happiness,” Friend, Jan 2005, 14
For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man (Moses 1:39).
Many people want to know where they came from, why they are here, and where they are going. Heavenly Father’s plan of happiness answers these questions. Before we were born, we all lived together in heaven with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. We learned and grew as much as we could. But eventually Heavenly Father gathered all His children in a council and told us that to become like Him, we must leave heaven for a time. He would create an earth for us, He would give us the freedom to choose between good and evil, and He would show us the way to know what is good. He would provide a Savior so that when we sinned, we could repent and still return to Him.
We came to earth to gain a body and walk by faith. We can’t remember our home in heaven, but we can choose the right by following the example of Jesus, obeying our parents, and living My Gospel Standards.
After we die, we will all live again because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. He overcame death through the Resurrection, and everyone will be resurrected. He also overcame sin, and those who have faith, repent, are baptized, receive the Holy Ghost, and keep the commandments will return to live with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. They will have the gift of eternal life, which is what the plan of happiness is all about.
Activity:
Teach children that in the pre-mortal life Heavenly Father chose Jesus Christ to be our Savior. Before we came to earth, we lived with Heavenly Father. Explain that Heavenly Father presented a plan for all of us to get a physical body and to learn to choose the right. Read Moses 4:1–4, and have the children tell the story in their own words. Ask, “Who is the ‘Beloved Son’ Heavenly Father spoke of?” Show GAK 240 (Jesus the Christ). On a large sheet of paper list the following statements: “An earth would be created where we could live and show we would obey Heavenly Father’s commandments”; “We shouted for joy when we heard Heavenly Father’s plan”; “Jesus was prepared to redeem us”; “There was a war in heaven.” Write another list of the following scriptures in random order: Abr. 3:24–25; Job 38:7; Ether 3:14; Rev. 12:7–9. Have the children read the scriptures and match each scripture to a statement. Testify of Jesus Christ.
Closing Prayer: Treat
Opening Song: “I Lived in Heaven” (CS, page 4)
Opening Prayer
Family Business:
Scripture or Testimony: D & C 138:56
Lesson: Margaret Lifferth, “Sharing Time: The Plan of Happiness,” Friend, Jan 2005, 14
For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man (Moses 1:39).
Many people want to know where they came from, why they are here, and where they are going. Heavenly Father’s plan of happiness answers these questions. Before we were born, we all lived together in heaven with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. We learned and grew as much as we could. But eventually Heavenly Father gathered all His children in a council and told us that to become like Him, we must leave heaven for a time. He would create an earth for us, He would give us the freedom to choose between good and evil, and He would show us the way to know what is good. He would provide a Savior so that when we sinned, we could repent and still return to Him.
We came to earth to gain a body and walk by faith. We can’t remember our home in heaven, but we can choose the right by following the example of Jesus, obeying our parents, and living My Gospel Standards.
After we die, we will all live again because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. He overcame death through the Resurrection, and everyone will be resurrected. He also overcame sin, and those who have faith, repent, are baptized, receive the Holy Ghost, and keep the commandments will return to live with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. They will have the gift of eternal life, which is what the plan of happiness is all about.
Activity:
Teach children that in the pre-mortal life Heavenly Father chose Jesus Christ to be our Savior. Before we came to earth, we lived with Heavenly Father. Explain that Heavenly Father presented a plan for all of us to get a physical body and to learn to choose the right. Read Moses 4:1–4, and have the children tell the story in their own words. Ask, “Who is the ‘Beloved Son’ Heavenly Father spoke of?” Show GAK 240 (Jesus the Christ). On a large sheet of paper list the following statements: “An earth would be created where we could live and show we would obey Heavenly Father’s commandments”; “We shouted for joy when we heard Heavenly Father’s plan”; “Jesus was prepared to redeem us”; “There was a war in heaven.” Write another list of the following scriptures in random order: Abr. 3:24–25; Job 38:7; Ether 3:14; Rev. 12:7–9. Have the children read the scriptures and match each scripture to a statement. Testify of Jesus Christ.
Closing Prayer: Treat
Dear Sisters,
Once a year we are blessed to gather in the spirit of "sisterhood" for our Stake Relief Society Women's Conference. We invite each of you to shore up your spiritual foundation as we gather together for the:
Vancouver Washington West Stake
Relief Society Women's Conference
JESUS CHRIST, OUR FIRM FOUNDATION
Saturday, February 7, 2009
10:00-11:30 a.m.
Presented in the Stake Center Chapel
Delicious Luncheon to follow
At this time of uncertainty, we testify of the one “sure” rock or foundation upon which every sister can securely build her life and her family – our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ. Please mark your calendars and invite those you visit teach and other friends. You will be blessed by making this a priority in your life. Come to be strengthened.
With great love,
Your Stake Relief Society Presidency,
Wendi Rowan, Debbie Draper, ConneMara Dunn, Ilene Lowe
Once a year we are blessed to gather in the spirit of "sisterhood" for our Stake Relief Society Women's Conference. We invite each of you to shore up your spiritual foundation as we gather together for the:
Vancouver Washington West Stake
Relief Society Women's Conference
JESUS CHRIST, OUR FIRM FOUNDATION
Saturday, February 7, 2009
10:00-11:30 a.m.
Presented in the Stake Center Chapel
Delicious Luncheon to follow
At this time of uncertainty, we testify of the one “sure” rock or foundation upon which every sister can securely build her life and her family – our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ. Please mark your calendars and invite those you visit teach and other friends. You will be blessed by making this a priority in your life. Come to be strengthened.
With great love,
Your Stake Relief Society Presidency,
Wendi Rowan, Debbie Draper, ConneMara Dunn, Ilene Lowe
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
PATRICIA J. CONRAD
Dec. 24, 1937 - Jan. 3, 2009
Pat Conrad passed away peacefully at her home in Vancouver, WA on Jan. 3, 2009 after battling breast cancer for over twelve years. She was born on Dec. 24, 1937 in Champaign, IL to Charles H. Johnson and Petra L. Peterson. She was one of five children. Most of Pat's younger years were spent in Madison, WI where she especially enjoyed sailing and ice boating on the Lake Mondota.
She graduated from the University of Wisconsin teaching high school in 1955.Pat met her future husband, Joseph, at the University of Wisconsin and dated several years before they were married on Nov. 29, 1957 in Madison. Upon her husband's graduation, she accompanied him on his Army assignment to New Jersey and then to White Sands Missile Range, NM where her first son was born.After their Army service was completed, Pat and Joe returned to Madison and then on to Loveland, CO where they were blessed with two daughters and a son. Pat then moved with her husband to Campinas, Brazil where they were blessed with their 5th child, a daughter.Pat had the opportunity of living in Guadalajara, Mexico and Tucson, AZ as well as approximately 28 years in Vancouver, WA.
Pat was an active member in her church and served in many different capacities. She loved to teach, especially the young girls. She was an active quilter, scrapbooker and an expert in family history. Besides working on her own family history, Pat helped a number of other people find their ancestors. She served two missions for her church, one 18-month full time mission in Salt Lake City and one 6-month part time mission.
She was a very special person to all who knew her and a special mother and wife. She will be deeply missed.
Pat is survived by her husband, Joseph; five children: Eric Conrad, Vancouver, Jeniene Ross, Vancouver, Gail Christensen, Delta, UT; Mark Conrad, Helena, OK; Molly Conrad, Los Angeles, CA: one brother, Dr. Charles Johnson, McMurray, PA; and three sisters, Sarah Yuenger, Alburn Way, WA; Susan Wright, San Jose, CA and Nancy Conrad, Portland, OR. Pat is also survived by 11 grand- children; and seven great-grand-children .
We would like to thank the nurses at NW Cancer Specialists for being so kind and helpful to her and her doctors, Dr. David Smith and Dr. Tracy Williams for giving her 12 extra years of special life.
There will be a viewing on Thurs., Jan. 8, 2009 at the Vancouver Funeral Chapel from 6-8:00 p.m. and a memorial service on Sat., Jan 10, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 2223 NW 99th Street, Vancouver, WA.
Dec. 24, 1937 - Jan. 3, 2009
Pat Conrad passed away peacefully at her home in Vancouver, WA on Jan. 3, 2009 after battling breast cancer for over twelve years. She was born on Dec. 24, 1937 in Champaign, IL to Charles H. Johnson and Petra L. Peterson. She was one of five children. Most of Pat's younger years were spent in Madison, WI where she especially enjoyed sailing and ice boating on the Lake Mondota.
She graduated from the University of Wisconsin teaching high school in 1955.Pat met her future husband, Joseph, at the University of Wisconsin and dated several years before they were married on Nov. 29, 1957 in Madison. Upon her husband's graduation, she accompanied him on his Army assignment to New Jersey and then to White Sands Missile Range, NM where her first son was born.After their Army service was completed, Pat and Joe returned to Madison and then on to Loveland, CO where they were blessed with two daughters and a son. Pat then moved with her husband to Campinas, Brazil where they were blessed with their 5th child, a daughter.Pat had the opportunity of living in Guadalajara, Mexico and Tucson, AZ as well as approximately 28 years in Vancouver, WA.
Pat was an active member in her church and served in many different capacities. She loved to teach, especially the young girls. She was an active quilter, scrapbooker and an expert in family history. Besides working on her own family history, Pat helped a number of other people find their ancestors. She served two missions for her church, one 18-month full time mission in Salt Lake City and one 6-month part time mission.
She was a very special person to all who knew her and a special mother and wife. She will be deeply missed.
Pat is survived by her husband, Joseph; five children: Eric Conrad, Vancouver, Jeniene Ross, Vancouver, Gail Christensen, Delta, UT; Mark Conrad, Helena, OK; Molly Conrad, Los Angeles, CA: one brother, Dr. Charles Johnson, McMurray, PA; and three sisters, Sarah Yuenger, Alburn Way, WA; Susan Wright, San Jose, CA and Nancy Conrad, Portland, OR. Pat is also survived by 11 grand- children; and seven great-grand-children .
We would like to thank the nurses at NW Cancer Specialists for being so kind and helpful to her and her doctors, Dr. David Smith and Dr. Tracy Williams for giving her 12 extra years of special life.
There will be a viewing on Thurs., Jan. 8, 2009 at the Vancouver Funeral Chapel from 6-8:00 p.m. and a memorial service on Sat., Jan 10, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 2223 NW 99th Street, Vancouver, WA.
Saturday, January 3, 2009
A Happy New Year Begins
Happy New Year to all. We've made it through 2008 & now 2009 greets us. A new year begins & new goals need to be made or even old goals continued. Sisters please think about some goals that as Sisters in Relief Society, we can all work towards achieving. Whether you met your goals for 2008 or didn't set any goals, start fresh now. Pray about what it is that will help you and all of us together. If we can help one another to get started and on track to making new goals now, how awesome would that will be?
Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general president: "Latter-day Saint women must be strong and immovable in their faith. They can and should excel in living and sharing their testimonies of the Lord Jesus Christ and His restored gospel. We do this as we:
1. Make and keep covenants with Him.
2. Are worthy and worship in His temples.
3. Study His doctrine in the scriptures and the words of prophets.
4. Qualify for, recognize, and follow the Holy Ghost.
5. Share and defend His gospel.
6. Participate in sincere personal and family prayer.
7. Have family home evening.
8. Live principles of self-reliance and provident living.
"These are essential things which must be done before nonessential things. These are simple, indispensable practices that almost seem mundane. . . . No one can do these things for us—these are personal practices and habits that set us apart as strong and immovable for that which is correct" ("What Latter-day Saint Women Do Best: Stand Strong and Immovable," Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2007, 109–10).
Sisters, let us use the essential things from Sister Beck to be the cornerstone of the goals that we set for ourselves and our Relief Society. Together we will become closer to each other and with our Savior. We love you and care about you and your families. We share your joys and sorrows. We pray that 2009 will be a rewarding and fulfilling year that brings you closer to Christ.
Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general president: "Latter-day Saint women must be strong and immovable in their faith. They can and should excel in living and sharing their testimonies of the Lord Jesus Christ and His restored gospel. We do this as we:
1. Make and keep covenants with Him.
2. Are worthy and worship in His temples.
3. Study His doctrine in the scriptures and the words of prophets.
4. Qualify for, recognize, and follow the Holy Ghost.
5. Share and defend His gospel.
6. Participate in sincere personal and family prayer.
7. Have family home evening.
8. Live principles of self-reliance and provident living.
"These are essential things which must be done before nonessential things. These are simple, indispensable practices that almost seem mundane. . . . No one can do these things for us—these are personal practices and habits that set us apart as strong and immovable for that which is correct" ("What Latter-day Saint Women Do Best: Stand Strong and Immovable," Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2007, 109–10).
Sisters, let us use the essential things from Sister Beck to be the cornerstone of the goals that we set for ourselves and our Relief Society. Together we will become closer to each other and with our Savior. We love you and care about you and your families. We share your joys and sorrows. We pray that 2009 will be a rewarding and fulfilling year that brings you closer to Christ.
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